3 Signs of a Cheating Spouse

By Guest Contributor

A cheating spouse can leave terrible scars in a relationship – and often mark the end of the relationship altogether. Unfortunately most don’t know about the cheating until they are told about it by a friend or relative. Here is insight from a Love Psychic Reader marking 3 signs of a cheating spouse.

Sign 1: A sudden increase in late night work and travel.
It may just be innocent and maybe they have a new boss, demanding new clients, or a new demanding project. Communication is key here, if you have any doubts call them. If you can’t reach them, they make lots of excuses or they won’t take your calls then a flag should go up. Midnight or midday rendezvous are not inductive to a good relationship and they cannot hide it forever. Check their clothes and travel items. Is there an unfamiliar perfume? Receipts for possibly romantic dinners, hotels, gifts, etc… (gifts are a big indicator of cheating).

Sign 2: A sudden decrease in sex drive.
This could mean they are having it with someone else. A temporary reduction in sex drive could just be related to increased stress or job duties. It could also indicate medical problems that should be referred to a doctor. But, a sudden decrease in sex drive equipped with sudden late night work at the office and unexplained receipts for romantic dinners definitely means something is going on.

Sign 3: A marked defensiveness and new irritability expressed towards you.
This could be your lover trying to hide their cheating by them throwing it back at you. “Why would you even ask or think that? You should trust me like I do you. Maybe you are the one having an affair. Where were you last night?” A new unforeseen defensiveness in itself is a strong indicator of cheating. What do they have to be so defensive about? Also the opposite of this defensiveness could indicate cheating. Is your partner all of a sudden being extremely nice. Are they buying you romantic gifts, cards, etc… for no apparent reason.

There are other indicators of a cheating spouse like phone calls with no message and hang-ups, password protected emails and computers that weren’t protected before, etc… These are all indicative of a potential cheater. Any one item could be circumstance, but the more indicators that occur, the more likely some cheating is going on.

If you would like an Accurate Psychic Reading by phone for insight into your life or relationship issues, visit The Phone Psychic Reading Line or Call PSI 1-800-966-2294

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Anyone in a marriage or a long-term relationship understands the challenges of keeping romance and passion alive.

Familiarity is a double-edged sword for most couples. Familiarity and repetitive routines can make you and your partner feel safe and comfortable with one another, but these same relationship staples can slowly cool the embers of passion.

For many, passion and novelty go hand-in-hand–new love is inherently passionate and sexually exciting. Just remember the level of passion you and your partner experienced early on in your relationship and you’ll know what I’m talking about. But those spontaneous fireworks cannot last indefinitely at some point deliberate attention and effort are needed to nurture this part of your relationship.

Are you contributing to a no-sex (or low-sex) marriage?

In addition to the natural erotic lulls that accompany long-term relationships, many couples are surprised to discover that they are doing things to contribute to a no-sex marriage. In particular, these couples espouse anti-erotic mindsets that make passion nearly impossible (and they might not even realize it!).

See if you or your partner hold any of the passion-annihilating mindsets listed below:

1. “Foreplay is a waste of time.”

Some people are anti-foreplay. They’d rather jump right into sex, even if their partner isn’t in the mood. Sure, some people like to start slow and their sexual arousal levels require a little attention and nurturance, but people who hold this particular mindset are probably convinced that they don’t have the time or patience for foreplay. As a husband once said to me, “Doc, I work sixty-five hours a week. Foreplay isn’t economical—it takes too much time and effort.” Since when does foreplay have to be so time consuming? Even a “quickie” can include a little foreplay.

If you want to chase all lasting remnants of passion out of your relationship, forget the warm-up and embrace an anti-foreplay attitude. But if it’s satisfying love-making that you’re after, learn to embrace a pro-foreplay attitude.

2. “Passion shouldn’t take planning”

You keep telling yourself that once the job stress vanishes or the kids grow up and leave for college, passion will magically find its way back into your relationship (so there’s no reason to bother making the effort now). Part of this mindset includes the erroneous belief that passion should remain natural and spontaneous.

Most couples in a long-term relationship discover that great sex often results from sex that’s planned (but they’re not the ones reading an article on surefire ways to destroy passion). So, if you want to be sure the bed is used just for sleeping, throw away your daily planners and keep your fingers crossed that passion will find its way into your relationship.

3. “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” (AKA: Don’t disturb a good rut.)

Here’s a really effective passion-drain: Resist any change or initiative that might add zest to your relationship; prepare the same meals, eat at the same restaurants, use the same exact script each time you make love, and for heaven’s sake, never ever carve out alone time for you and your spouse.

As an added bonus, here are two passion-destroying beliefs that many couples end up endorsing. If you’re stubbornly set on creating a relationship without any passion, you can repeat these statements each morning, but please only repeat them if you’re totally serious about obliterating all signs of sexual energy from your relationship:

“Nothing will ever change, so why bother trying.”

and

“We’ve been together for so many years, it’s useless trying something different.”

4. “Why bother touching each other if it isn’t going to lead to sex?”

Touch (both sexual and nonsexual) can add a layer of sensuality to your relationship while making you and your partner feel closer to each other. However, making a commitment to touch each other more frequently isn’t that straightforward. Here’s just one unforeseen complication you might face:

You’re watching television together while holding hands sounds good, right? But what if you like to alternate channel-surfing hands? Within seconds things can get pretty convoluted and for some of you uncoordinated types, a little dangerous. Imagine your humiliation when you reach out to touch your partner but accidentally clip her in the side of the face with the remote. Or even worse, you put the remote down in order to hold hands and your spouse ends up gaining control of the remote! Keep your hands to yourself (for safety’s sake).

There are many paths to a passionless relationship with the above passion–destroying mindsets are just a small sampling of how couples inadvertently chase the sex out of their relationships. There are also steps you can take to build a lasting and meaningful relationship, but some effort is needed on both sides.

If you would like a Love Psychic Reading by phone, consider calling PSI today by visiting The Psychic Line or Calling 1-800-966-2294

By Guest Contributor

When starting out in a new relationship, short of calling a phone psychic reader, how can we know how it will go?

As human beings we all have certain needs for a relationship, but there is one desire that almost everyone has – a long lasting relationship with someone who means a lot to you. These days, it is hard to find that certain person with whom we click, someone who we can know we can get along with over a long time period.

You can tell a lot about two people using astrology reading techniques, through a comparison of your own astrological birth patterns versus the other. By getting the guidance of a competent astrologer, you can single out a good match better than eHarmony.com can – and a lot quicker.

The first thing to look for is the placement of the moon in both charts.

The two moons’ relationship will determine how comfortable each person is with each other. It also has a major influence on the ability to live together in a daily routine. This is important, as all those in intimate relationships eventually live together.

What? You feel like going out and they want to stay in? You want fast food and they want a home-cooked meal? These problems can be avoided altogether by checking to see if your moon is in a compatible sign with the other.

One thing I have found consistently is that if you and your partners’ moon are in the same sign, you will definitely feel more comfortable with each other right off the bat (barring any major difficult aspects between the two charts). Even for those who have other problem areas in the relationship, both people will generally be on the same schedule. You’ll both generally be in the same mood for the same thing at the same time.

Moon signs that get along together naturally are as follows:

AIR SIGNS: Libra, Gemini, Aquarius
WATER SIGNS: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
FIRE SIGNS: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
EARTH SIGNS: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Air likes Fire and Water likes Earth, as well. These particular combinations I just mentioned (Air-Fire, Water-Earth) are helpful and positive, but don’t have the burst of energy that the above combinations have.

Sometimes it is better that way. A burst between Fire signs can cause a fire that is hard to put out and may get out of control. Or it can go the another way, as Earth signs in an easy relationship may be too dull and need outside stimulation, be it a person or an activity, to become excited about their life.

Usually you have to know how to read an ephemeris (a chart of planets daily positions) or have someone draw up your chart to get your moon sign because the moon moves so fast and there are time zones and birth times to consider. If you need astrology dating advice or help, visit The Psychic Line to learn more about their astrology readers.

It is not so much the sun that rules our lives, but the moon, which reveals the day-to-day activity and habit patterns. The sun sign may show how much strength and stamina we have to contribute to a relationship, but in the end, partnerships will be supported or broken by the placement of the moon, the one who adapts and nurtures so that everything works.

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A relationship usually starts out with enough sparks to start an inferno, but after a while, the flames settle down until you one day realize that there’s not much left — just a few dying embers smoldering slowly. This is how it is for most couples, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Here are 5 tips to stop the spark from going out in your relationship.

1. Dress up for your partner. When first dating, you put a lot of care into your appearance. You make sure that you look ‘just right’. You shower, you launder, you fix and the overall outward package is one that shows how much you want to impress your date. As the relationship progresses, the immaculate outward package deteriorates — they’ve seen you first thing in the morning when you look your worst, what’s the point of dressing up? Well the point is that it shows you care what they think of you. It shows them that you want to look nice for them. It also works for both parts of the relationship — you should both want to look good for each other. You can dress up to go out, or dress up to stay home, you can even dress up for the bedroom but be warned, that’s probably going to put more than a spark into your relationship!
2. Keep a daily snuggle time on your schedule. Life is busy, things get in the way of getting together with your partner, stuff to do, deadlines to meet and you fall exhausted into bed each night with a passing thought of whether or not you hugged your partner that day. Commit to at least a 15 minute snuggle period each day — the time of day is up to you, but make sure that you keep this time sacred and nothing gets in the way of it. You may occasionally have to move the time forwards or back in the day, but don’t allow anything to stop it entirely. This shows your that they are an important part of their life.
3. Do something different together on a regular basis. Get out, try new things. Go to a restaurant, see a different kind of movie to what you usually watch, take a short class, take up a new sport, visit a place you’ve never been before. The newness and sense of adventure that you share will help bring back some of the initial closeness you had when your relationship was new.
4. Put the laughter back into your relationship. Once the initial period is over and life settles down, a relationship lives on the day-to-day lives of both parties. The stresses and strains take over and one will worry about the other, and vice versa. Instead of concentrating on the stress making issues, find something that you can laugh about. There’s something funny about most situations, you’ve just got to find it. See which of you can see the funny side first!
5. Initiate surprises. Don’t allow the relationship to fall into a dependable pattern, keep it fresh! Plan a picnic without telling your partner (just make sure it doesn’t conflict with anything else first!), wear something sexy, put love notes in his pocket, send a sizzling email full of promises you’ve every intention of fulfilling, etc. Surprises don’t have to cost anything, sometimes the best ones don’t cost anything more than a little thought and a lot of imagination!

Relationships need to settle a little to allow them to grow, but that doesn’t mean they have to go from sizzling to stale — let them cool, but then use the tips above to keep the relationship bubbling.

If you are in need of help with your relationship, consider talking with an intuitive psychic counselor by phone, you can gain valuable insight into the future of your relationship.

By Guest Contributor

Are you married, in a long term relationship, or just starting out in a relationship, and wondering what your strengths and challenges are in your relationship? Do you wonder if this is the person who is your soulmate, or if your heart will be broken again?

Astrology is an amazing esoteric science. And it has many answers to these questions.

If you are married.
If you are married, or about to be married, and you’re curious to know what areas in your marriage are the most harmonious, and which areas will possibly cause you some stress, astrology has some answers. There are harmonious aspects between your natal planets that indicate areas that run smoothly, joyfully, and harmoniously. Then there are challenging aspects between your natal planets that indicate areas within your relationship that will be a source of stress. By knowing these areas of harmony and stress, you can help your relationship be the kind of relationship you truly desire. As they say, “to be forewarned is to be forearmed”. So being armed with astrological information can be sort of a guide to your relationship.

Recently met someone.
If you have recently met someone, or you are in a relationship, and you are hoping that this is “the one”, or your hoping that this is not another one destined for heartbreak, you need to check your interaspects to Chiron. Chiron’s harmonious aspects to Venus, Jupiter, and Neptune hold the promise of a long term relationship and can indicate whether this person is your “soulmate”. However, challenging aspects from Saturn hold a strong possibility of heartbreak sooner or later.

Want to get married.
If you want to get married and you are wondering if this person is the marrying type or is a commitment phobe, check his/her natal aspects that help to indicate these personality types.

Check your long-term compatibility using Astrology.

The composite chart is also something to look at to indicate long term compatibility. This chart represents the relationship itself. It will show you what emotional and circumstantial elements will be present in a long term or committed relationship. You might change your mind when you read this !

Difficult aspects between the personal planets – Sun, Moon, and Venus, to the planets Saturn, Uranus, and Pluto could spell trouble. I nearly guarantee when you read this part of a compatibility report you’ll recognize the “symptoms”. Hope that there’s more harmonious aspects with Venus and Jupiter to counter balance these !

If however, you haven’t walked down the aisle yet and would like to, there are many areas in astrology that will assist your quest for relationship information.

Look to the progressed charts and transits to discover the years where you are most likely to become married, engaged, or commit to a long term relationship. There are even indicators of when there’s a possible wedding month or engagement – just look to the progressed Moon and Part of Fortune.

There is so much wonderful information you can derive from astrology’s tools, to help you make the best decisions for your relationship and for yourself. All it takes is a little time and the desire to make your relationship the best it can be, know your areas of difficulty, and find out ways to make them work.

Astrology will also help you to determine if this is the relationship for you. Why waste time on heartache, when, with a little investigation you can prevent it ! or hold on to your love because this one has a strong probability for long term commitment.

So wouldn’t it be great to have a guidebook on your relationship ? Astrology is the closest thing you’ll get to providing you with the most personal information that reflects this particular relationship, your particular relationship.

By Guest Contributor

If you’re a woman and you need relationship advices, you have to make sure that you get it only from the best source – and that would be from the expert who understands you, your relationship, the people around you, and everything else that lies ahead. To keep yourself from going through all the pain over again, try to consult with a relationship expert or Love Psychic. But before you do, you have to evaluate her credentials first. She has to be someone who truly understands the situation and takes your full interest at heart. There are many psychiatrists that offer the same services. But they usually charge too high a fee and would require you to come back for more sessions when all you need is a single advice. For such purposes, you can always turn to a friend whom you can call any time and request for a relationship advice whenever you want. Intuitive counseling conducted over the phone is one of the best and most convenient ways to receive relationship advice for women.

Whenever you are in doubt about your partner or if you think that things doesn’t look too good with your relationship with him, try to ask a intuitive psychic counselor and ask her what she thinks and feels about you and your partner’s future together. Intuitive relationship counseling is usually conducted by a psychic reader. By talking to her over the phone and telling her your story and then asking your questions after, you should be able to make sound decisions about your current relationship state. Through the intuition advice, you will learn if your partner is in for the long haul or is the type that flees from one relationship into another. Relationships are the most complicated stages that people go through. Without the proper advice, you can’t be assured of happiness that’s supposed to last for a lifetime.

But being hurt doesn’t mean you have to stop loving. You don’t end your relationship during its first trial. Every partnership goes through hurdles. It is one way to make your bond stronger and your trust with one another greater. However, it is also very hard to know whether or not your partner is going to be with you for the rest of his life. It is okay to go through all the pains and aches – if you know for a fact that your partner would stand through it all with you. What if he doesn’t? How can you know? Whenever a couple goes through marital problems, the most common questions they ask are “Should I forgive him or not?” “ Should I continue with this relationship or end it right now?” These are the most basic questions. But they are also the hardest ones to answer. If a relationship advisor can answer these questions accurately, then she has just served you the best psychic love advice.

However, it is definitely hard to give a straight answer to any person who’s asking what to do with her love life – unless it is directed to a love psychic or clairvoyant who has the power to feel and foresee the future. Such a service is called intuitive relationship counseling. Psychic readers can provide it. And oftentimes, the love advice you can get from these experts is the soundest one you can ever avail of. While you can always ask your closest friend what’s the best thing to do if you’re facing a relationship obstacle, an intuitive counselor could help you much better and in so many ways. Love advices are just the one of the things that intuitive counselors can provide. More than anything, they can also help you open your mind, explore your full potential, and make you a better person just after a single therapy session. You’ll feel renewed after a one counseling done over the phone. That’s how great and effective their abilities are.

By Guest Contributor

It’s easy to fall in love. But it’s hard to fall out of it. Sometimes, even if a person is going through the turmoil of a relationship, she simply can’t get out of it just like that. She tends to stick it out with the person she loves, even if that means she has to sacrifice her own happiness.

To know when to start a relationship and when to end it is critical. Whenever you are in doubt of your relationship with someone, it is best that you seek relationship help from an expert. If you can’t decide on your own, a person with the capacity and better knowledge of the things that surrounds you should be consulted.

This is where intuitive relationship counseling comes in. This is not your ordinary type of love counseling wherein you talk to a psychiatric expert and tell her all your love problems. It maybe similar but instead of a psychologist, you’re going to talk to a psychic reader. She is a person who can see the elements about you and around you, including all things that could affect you now and in the future. If there’s anybody who can help you most in your love problems, it would be this person.

Here, you will talk to the counselor for an hour or so and you’ll be free to ask her questions about anything that concerns you and your relationship with somebody. And if she’s really good, then this isn’t the only topic that you can talk about. You should be able to ask for career and personal advices too, apart from the usual relationship help that you needed.

Talking to a clairvoyant is like having a peep at your own future. If you know what lies ahead, then you will be able to make the right decisions. You don’t really have to follow the advices of the counselor right away. You’re free to evaluate things as they happen before your eyes. It’s like knowing where the holes are so you can leap over them instead of falling helplessly into the pit. You need but one hour to spend with an intuitive counselor to get the relationship help that you really need.If you’re a woman and you need relationship advices, you have to make sure that you get it only from the best source – and that would be from the expert who understands you, your relationship, the people around you, and everything else that lies ahead.

To keep yourself from going through all the pain over again, try to consult with a relationship expert. But before you do, you have to evaluate her credentials first. She has to be someone who truly understands the situation and takes your full interest at heart.

There are many psychiatrists that offer the same services. But they usually charge too high a fee and would require you to come back for more sessions when all you need is a single advice. For such purposes, you can always turn to a friend whom you can call any time and request for a relationship advice whenever you want.
Intuitive counseling conducted over the phone is one of the best and most convenient ways to receive relationship advice for women. Whenever you are in doubt about your partner or if you think that things doesn’t look too good with your relationship with him, try to ask a intuitive counselor and ask her what she thinks and feels about you and your partner’s future together.

Intuitive relationship counseling is usually conducted by a psychic reader. By talking to her over the phone and telling her your story and then asking your questions after, you should be able to make sound decisions about your current relationship state. Through the intuition advice, you will learn if your partner is in for the long haul or is the type that flees from one relationship into another. Relationships are the most complicated stages that people go through. Without the proper advice, you can’t be assured of happiness that’s supposed to last for a lifetime.